chosen names, identity, things that matter to me

Some thoughts on self-identification. I’ve been hanging out in my local kink and sex-positive communities for…since 2008, I think. I have lost track. I make an effort to know people in the local kink community, to try to know them beyond a list of “things we might do together” and to think of them asSome thoughts on self-identification. I’ve been hanging out in my local kink and sex-positive communities for…since 2008, I think. I have lost track. I make an effort to know people in the local kink community, to try to know them beyond a list of “things we might do together” and to think of them as […]

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My Body and What I Do With It

My body is mine to politic and expose (or not) as I see fit – for a good cause, for a profit, or just for a good time. My gratitude to the well-meaning person who elicited that response from me today. The question was about burlesque and women putting their bodies on display in theMy body is mine to politic and expose (or not) as I see fit – for a good cause, for a profit, or just for a good time. My gratitude to the well-meaning person who elicited that response from me today. The question was about burlesque and women putting their bodies on display in the […]

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